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I was such a shy child growing up. I was afraid to speak up; afraid to express my opinion. I didn’t think anyone would stop and listen to what I had to say or even care what I thought.
I’ll never forget my first potential “run-in” with the neighborhood bully. Everyone in the neighborhood feared “Joe”. You didn’t dare ride your bike down Joe’s street. You didn’t dare get in his way.
One day I was riding my bike to school. As I was going along, I heard a commotion behind me. It was Joe and his pack of “followers”. They approached me on their bikes, and Joe and another boy rode really close to me in an act of intimidation – so close that I lost control of my bike and fell to the ground. I was a bit shaken up. I had never been bothered by a bully before.
What happened next was so shocking
Instead of the typical bully behavior of laughing and riding off, Joe looked really concerned. He stopped riding, turned around, rode back to me and asked me if I was okay. I could tell he really cared about my welfare at that moment.
“I am fine," I told him. He apologized, helped me up, and off we rode to school. He and his followers never again attempted to “bully” me.
I felt so strong and safe. There was a power and inner confidence so present in me, that it prompted a known neighborhood bully to apologize to ME!
Where did this inner sense of strength and security come from?
Fortunately, I had adults in my life that knew the value of fostering a sense of inner strength within me using universal principles. I was taught about the existence of a power and wisdom that I could tap into it at will. By the time I was 8, I knew of the power I had over my life. If there was ever any doubt, this incident convinced me of my inner strength.
Would you believe I grew up feeling that I was “bully-proof," even though I was shy and was probably the perfect target?
Years later, I was faced with another bully: Infertility. My husband and I so wanted a child; in fact I had dreamed all my life of having a large family; 6 kids sounded like a nice number to me! When I struggled to have a child, I tried everything. I felt like my world was caving in around me. That was, until I was reminded of something – I had forgotten about my powerful connection to my inner source of strength, peace, and wisdom.
Do you know what reminded me? I happened to watch the movie, “The Secret." I recognized the principles taught in the movie, but had forgotten to apply them to my life to change my circumstances!
I realized that I had always possessed what I needed, but I was searching for a solution outside of myself. I forgot that every answer to every problem can be found from within. Once I remembered this and the incredible power we all possess, I made a choice to stand in my power and face this bully head on. My ability to once again garner my inner strength and face my bullies convinced me that I had to teach this to my son. I had to instill in him the same strength instilled in me that allowed me to feel “bully-proof." I wanted to give him the ability to stand in the face of the “bullies” that life can throw at us.
Ian and I on his first
day of school!
Mother of One
"I discovered that I was able to start with a healthy foundation for her right from the start."
“I had the privilege of being a part of the I Shine Child Self-Esteem Bully Proof program. My daughter, at the time, was only 14 months. I was not sure how helpful it would be at such a young age, but I discovered that I was able to start with a healthy foundation for her right from the start. Using Jill's suggestions to encourage my daughter with what she was doing well, with clear language, such as, "You followed directions", instead of my typical response, "Good girl", helps my daughter build her self-esteem with her own actions. I too was reminded that it is important for myself to stay positive with the outcome I want for my daughter. Being more aware that it takes both parent and child to help with this healthy outcome made me feel like I can do more that just trying to be a good example as my daughter continues to learn and grow.”
But I couldn’t stop with my son. I felt a strong calling to take this lesson more broadly. Let me tell you why.
Whenever I hear an adult unknowingly say something to a child that I know can negatively affect their self-esteem, it breaks my heart! I know that adult could so easily tweak his words and have the opposite outcome!
Often when I work in the lunch room at my son’s school, I will see a child or two sitting all by themselves while other children are sitting in groups happily eating and talking and laughing. Every time I observe this, I literally have to push back the tears.
I know in my heart that it doesn’t have to be like this for them!
If only I could tell their parents what I know to be true about sparking that inner source of strength in children, that strength that gives them resilience in the face of “bullies."
So, what are the “bullies” that your children face?
- Does your child continually seek approval and acceptance from others? Does he doubt his abilities when you know he offers so much potential?
- Does your child bend to peer pressure, rather than express her feelings and stand up for what she believes in?
- How do you feel when you see so much promise in your child, yet she lacks the inner motivation to succeed?
- Aren’t you tired of feeling that something that you’ve said or done, or not said or done has damaged the self-esteem of your child? Wouldn’t you like to know your role in the development of your child’s self image so that you could do something about it?
Parents, it doesn’t have to be like this! You can help your child overcome these issues, just like I overcame Joe, the neighborhood bully as a child and infertility as an adult. Together, we can make a difference for our children!
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Mother of Two
"Not only do I believe my children are fine now, but I know they are going to be for the rest of their lives because we have the basic tools."
“Since using Jill's Bully-Proof Self-Esteem system, all has been going so well. My daughter seems a lot more cheerful, lighter and less worried about making friends ever since we've started affirmations. She says hers with delight and confidence. In one of my visualization exercises I imagine my children being surrounded by other children who are very interested in them and what they have to say. I affirm this with words. Well, a week ago I went to my daughter's gymnastics school to pick her up, but I was earlier than usual. I found her in the middle of a crowd paging through a photo album which didn't belong to her. The crowd around her were listening very attentively. She had made friends...she was very happy. My child was never like that! She has always kept her distance from other kids, so self conscious. But what I saw brought a smile to my face; the picture was just so perfect. Not only do I believe my children are fine now, but I know they are going to be for the rest of their lives because we have the basic tools. The Bully Proof Self-Esteem program has indeed being very beneficial to me and my children. Thanks Jill.”
Would you like to learn how to “bully-proof” your child by fostering a sense of inner strength and security that they could always rely on when things become challenging?
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The "Child Self-Esteem 'Bully-Proof' Home Study Program " is a unique, one-of-a-kind, unprecedented 4-part home study program that will take you step-by-step through the strategy I utilize with my son and that you too can implement with your children.
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The Esther Experience
"Under Jill's leading; parents will be offering their children the life skills we all desire."
“Jill is such a special women and mother! I am so impressed by Jill's unique stand to not just WANT our children to feel great about themselves and make excellent decisions, but to be one of the RARE individuals who actually DOES something about it. Jill is making our world a better place by bringing spiritual lessons for kids into the mainstream. Under Jill's leading; parents will be offering their children the life skills we all desire.
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It's just a matter of knowing what to do; knowing how to bring about this inner knowing in your children. In the "Child Self-Esteem 'Bully-Proof' Home Study Program " I will teach you what I have learned and developed into a effortless strategy that I am using with my son. I'm just blown away by the results I am seeing and I want you to feel this way too!
Here is the pathway of the Child Self-Esteem 'Bully-Proof' Home Study Program that you can do from the comfort of your own home...
Module One: Understanding Your Mindset and Core Beliefs
In Module One, we’ll examine the mindset you need in order to bring about positive change in your child’s self-esteem. You will learn:
- The connection between your thoughts and the self-esteem of your child.
- Why self-esteem is not tied to performance.
- Whether your desires for your children are in alignment with your beliefs.
- A technique to eliminate any negative core beliefs you have.
... and more
Module Two: The Power of Words
In Module Two, we cover the power of language in the development of self-esteem and responsibility. You will learn:
- How praise influences our children, and which type of praise can actually damage self-esteem.
- Why the words our kids choose to use can have a negative effect on their self-esteem.
- How to undo low self-esteem by making a simple shift in your everyday speech.
- Three games you can play at home to encourage positive self-talk in your kids.
Module Three: Visualization and the Power to Create Your Ideal
In Module Three you’ll figure out precisely what results you want for your kids, and then discover a number of tools you can use to bring these desired results into you and your child’s reality. You will learn:
- A powerful tool to help you determine precisely what it is you desire.
- The critical role of goal-setting in helping you manifest real change, and a simple process to do this.
- Strategies for writing affirmations for yourself and your kids that bring about dramatic improvements in confidence and esteem.
- How the power of your imagination can change your circumstances, almost like magic.
- ... and more
Module Four: Living with an Attitude of Gratitude
In Module Four, we’ll examine the power and role of gratitude in manifesting a healthy level of self-esteem. You will learn:
- What gratitude has to do with self-esteem.
- Five techniques you can implement immediately to cultivate an ‘attitude of gratitude’ in your home.
- Why keeping a gratitude journal can actually improve your child’s sleep.
- A simple technique your child can use to enhance his sense of worthiness and self-confidence.
- ...and more
How the Program Works
The 4 part home study program is a combination of 4 downloadable mp3 audio training calls, 4 pdf reference guides, 4 pdf worksheet packets, and journal pages for tracking your progress. All of the self-study content is offered in a systematic way to help you guide your child to feeling a high level of confidence, resilience, and greater self-esteem.
All of the content is provided to you on a private, VIP web page for immediate download. The files can be downloaded and saved to your computer or other digital storage device for future reference
BONUS: Moonlight Meditations mp3 audio recording
This meditation audio is a recording of two meditations you can use with your kids at bedtime to allow them to fall asleep peacefully, full of gratitude for their day and with joyful anticipation of the next day to come.
Here are some of the more common questions I get:
“I’m not sure this is the right time…are you offering this again?”
You may have heard the old saying, “If you want to make a change, you’ve got to make a change.” We all resist change, and yet it is the very thing that will nip this issue in the bud with your child for good. Once you know these tools and strategies, they are with you forever!
Yet, if you don’t do something different, how will more time change anything? Our kids grow up so fast, and you only have so many years to positively influence them. While I do offer this program at a special price periodically, why keep “wishing and hoping” that things could be better when you can start supporting your child NOW with positive tools and strategies you can use immediately. In the words of “Think and Grow Rich” author Napoleon Hill: “Do not wait. The time will never be just right.”
“I just don’t have the money to invest right now”
I know money is a scary thing for some people. I’ve been in some pretty scary financial situations myself where I didn’t know how I would pay my next month’s rent. But there is a huge difference between buying unnecessary items and investing in yourself and your ability to be the best parent you can. When you invest in yourself and your child, you grow and so does she. You will never be the person you were before the investment. The beauty of this program is that you can make a huge investment in yourself and your child for a very reasonable cost… AND you will learn the skills and strategies that will stay with you and your child for a lifetime, not to mention that she will be able to pass along these skills along to his kids. What better investment can any parent make?
“Why can’t I just figure this out on my own?”
Well, how has that approach been working for you so far? The fact is, if you are seeing problems already, chances are, something isn’t working thus far. It is hard for us to do this work on our own, because we are just too close to ourselves to see the obvious shifts we need to make to help our kids. Plus, if you’ve never done something before, doesn’t it make sense to learn from someone who has? That’s why I’ve invested in my own mentoring and programs for years, and it has been the best investment I have ever made and continue to make.
But a lot of people resist asking for the help they need, either because they think they are supposed to be able to do it alone, or because they feel they don’t deserve the support.
Whether you utilize this program or something else, don’t waste another 6 months or a year trying to figure it out how to best support your child on your own. Get the guidance and support you need and deserve NOW so both you and your child can move forward with solid tools that can support his growth now and as he experiences new challenges in his life.
By enrolling in my “Child Self-Esteem 'Bully-Proof' Home Study Program,” you’ll receive:
- Instant access to each recorded session in downloadable mp3 format.
- A success journal template for recording your progress.
- Reference sheets from each lesson that will help to reinforce the key principles.
- Handouts detailing the exercises to make the whole process really easy and straightforward.
- FREE bonus copy of my “Moonlight Meditations” mp3 audio.
- Online access to class library containing all documents, recordings, and bonuses in an easy-to-access, organized format.
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Author, A Moment of Peace
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Instant access to each audio training module in downloadable mp3 format which I can download to my computer or mp3 player to listen to at my convenience.
Downloadable reference sheets, home practice worksheets, and success journal templates that will help me follow along and apply the strategies I learn in the “ Child Self-Esteem ‘Bully-Proof’ Home Study Program."
Online access to class library containing all documents, recordings, bonuses, and session information in an easy-to-access, organized format.
BONUS: "Moonlight Meditations" mp3 audio meditation that can help me calm my children and foster in them a sense of gratitude ($19 value).
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Don't you think...
- The satisfaction of knowing that you are taking action to improve your child's life (and your own)
- The peace of mind that your child will grow up with a strategy they can use to successfully deal with life's difficulties
- Seeing the sparkle in your child's eye because they feel "bully-proof" in the face of challenge
$497 $197 at the very least?
I'm sure you'll agree that this is a small price to pay for solid principles, and transformational strategies you can use with your kids to help them manage any challenges that life throws at them. I'm sure you'll agree this is a small price to pay to show your child how to access their inner strength and face life from a confident, secure place.